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    a miserable life

    We are now rushing to our 30s.  Actually we are not rushing.  It's just time flies.  Middle-aged women as we are, we are still on our way figuring out what we want and what we don't.  Not sure whether we've reached half-way yet.  We are testing our capacity for pressure and we are on the edge every day.  One little accident could be the last straw and make us burst into tears like a little baby.  For all the pains we have gone through and we have to go through in our life, I am not obsessed to those golden times in the past any more.  They are gone.  That's it.  And forever.  Finally I found something that could last forever.

    Are all urban women freaks complaining all the time?  Is there a way to make us happier, not alcohol, nor a new dress, nor a new pair of shoes.  Does this long-lasting happiness exist at all? 

    frjj

     
    我老婆说这张照片太失败,异常像芙蓉姐姐。。。。
     
    额第神啊,真的吗?

    一则NY Times 上的错新闻

    A Chinese University Removes a Topic From the Closet


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    September 8, 2005, Thursday
    By HOWARD W. FRENCH (NYT); Foreign Desk
    Late Edition - Final, Section A, Page 3, Column 1, 1217 words

    DISPLAYING ABSTRACT - Fudan University in Shanghai offers undergraduates class on gay and lesbian studies, first of its kind at any Chinese college; course is being portayed as major advance among China's largely invisible gay and lesbian population, which is said to be as large as 48 million; many gay and lesbian Chinese say it is social conservatism more than government that has discouraged gay people from publicly acknowledging their sexual orientation

    这就是这条新闻的大略。看不到全文,因为没有权限。不过这是2005的,应该说的是当年的事情。那么复旦大学是从2005年开始开同性恋问题的课的。如果是这样的话,这决不是中国大学的第一次尝试。人大就比这个早。我大三的时候,应该是2001-2002年,那时候人大的哲学系就给我们开了同性恋伦理,那个时候我们就知道《东宫西宫》。

    说到《东宫西宫》,今天看到imdb上面说《蓝宇》是中国第一部同性恋电影。这是从何谈起啊,蓝宇出来的时候都21世纪了,《东宫西宫》可是96年就出来了。

    这些美国人啊。。。。

    在贴一遍这诗,大家一定要读啊,尤其最后一段

    The Good-Morrow

    JOHN DONNE

    I wonder by my troth, what thou, and I

    Did, till we lov'd? Were we not wean'd till then?

    But suck'd on countrey pleasures, childishly?

    Or snorted we in the seaven sleepers den?

    T'was so; But this, all pleasures fancies bee.

    If ever any beauty I did see,

    Which I desir'd, and got, 'twas but a dreame of thee.

     

    And now good morrow to our waking soules,

    Which watch not one another out of feare;

    For love, all love of other sights controules,

    And makes one little roome, an every where.

    Let sea-discoverers to new worlds have gone,

    Let Maps to other, worlds on worlds have showne,

    Let us possesse one world; each hath one, and is one.

     

    My face in thine eye, thine in mine appeares,

    And true plaine hearts doe in the faces rest,

    Where can we finde two better hemispheares

    Without sharpe North, without declining West?

    What ever dyes, was not mixed equally;

    If our two loves be one, or, thou and I

    Love so alike, that none doe slacken, none can die.

    我的我的和我的

    vista不要怪我,我忙疯了。。。等我写完论文。。。
     
    大家的名字都越来越有玄机,七七八八看不大出来悲喜
    我在很久以后不看星座运程也不听电视叽里呱啦预报天气(注:他们都是在同一个层次上放屁)
    虽然我从来不写小说,可是我哥特式起伏跌宕的生活让我觉得我活着非常有意义
    免费让大家看肥皂剧
    当然结局需要是大团圆,皆大欢喜。
     
    我用很多很多个一天想一件事,或几件相同类型的事,这些一天加起来差不多耗完了我的后半辈子
    原来呢,日子是可以安安静静,按部就班的过去,没人有事没事的挑剔或者给你一个很大的难题
    我删掉一个我不想再写下去的标题,太血腥太宏大太耀眼或者太偏激
    我不研究主义也不解决问题
    我要含情脉脉,并,缠绵悱恻
    会甜的发腻
     
    王小波对李银河说:
    我不要孤独,孤独是丑的,令人作呕的,灰色的。我要和你相通,共存,还有你的温暖,都是最迷人的啊!可惜我不漂亮。可是我诚心诚意呢,好吗我?我会爱,入迷,微笑,陶醉。好吗我?
     
    你是好的。
    好吗我?
     
    另,为防止大家不能达到我想要的结论,我勉为其难的打破惺惺作态的规矩
    直截了当:我不痛地快乐着~~~
     
    vista,我终于没写阴暗的了,好吗我?:)