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我看到不如意的就很沮丧:这世界怎么这样,这些人怎么这样,怎么会有人这样,怎么能这么做,云云。
当然了,我大概评论别人的时候,你也觉得我非常bitchy。某人就说,你太在意了。我当然在意,因为我不愿意看到任何人痛苦绝望,尤其是我关心的人。
小男人,都喜欢逞口舌之快。因为身不正而所为为人不齿。所以只能在翻来覆去毫无意义的自卫反击式尖酸刻薄中寻找心理平衡。
对啊,我太知道是非善恶对错黑白了。我怎么怎么也想不通你为什么不明白。你既不觉得你做错了,还觉得自己做的很光明正大无可厚非。
跟一个胡搅蛮缠的人讲理,那是一个痛苦而煎熬的过程。
你说一个坏男人最坏最坏是什么样?不是那种朝三暮四的。不是那种一边给你买订婚戒指准备跟你求婚一边去跟别人开房(或就地解决)的。
是那种作了这些,有了新欢,但是又觉得新欢也许也不合口味,以后某天还是要会回头找旧爱,所以三天两头在旧爱那里也做痛心疾首状,让旧爱欲罢不能苦苦等待的。
没人相信海枯石烂,起码在它发生之前没人能预设他的存在。所以变心没什么,新人上阵也没什么。
但是总要有底线。劈腿就是不好的。可以欺骗就是错的。用一个人实实在在锥心刺骨的痛苦来成全你一个小小的backup plan更是缺德的。
所以,请你放了该放的,珍惜该珍惜的,过你该过的日子。收起你那毫无意义毫无建设性,又让人觉得别有居心的怜悯和同情。内心刻薄自私,也要坚持到底,那也是勇敢。
 
 
 
 

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    earthquake conversations

    1. Xiao -- says (12:19 PM):
    are you ok?
    dongjin says (12:19 PM):
    yes, i am okay. thank you
    dongjin says (12:19 PM):
    how about yourself
    Xiao -- says (12:19 PM):
    good
    Xiao -- says (12:19 PM):
    i was watching my wall shaking
    dongjin says (12:19 PM):
    hehe, i am buried under the building  now, come to rescue me...
    Xiao -- says (12:19 PM):
    wondering whether it was me shaking
    Xiao -- says (12:19 PM):
     ...
    dongjin says (12:19 PM):
    hehe
    Xiao -- says (12:20 PM):
    and yet your computer is still plugged
    Xiao -- says (12:20 PM):
    cool computer
    dongjin says (12:20 PM):
    i thought someone was angry and shaking his legs
    2.
    Longlive China-machenwei says (12:15 PM):
    get dressed, stay close to the door, and prepare for evacuation in case there is a bigger aftershock
    Longlive China-machenwei says (12:15 PM):
    I am going to grab some food
    Xiao -- says (12:15 PM):
    should i bring my laptop and your apple with me
    Longlive China-machenwei says (12:16 PM):
    no
    Xiao -- says (12:16 PM):
    and the tv
    Longlive China-machenwei says (12:16 PM):
    leave them there
    Longlive China-machenwei says (12:16 PM):
    it's not very likely to happen
    Longlive China-machenwei says (12:16 PM):
    if it happens, just make sure you are fine

    地震了

    刚才。持续五秒钟,或更长?
     
     2.1  2008/07/29 12:32:30 33.678N 118.299W  1.7   10 km ( 6 mi) SSE of Rolling Hills, CA
     1.6  2008/07/29 12:29:21 33.812N 117.454W  3.9   12 km ( 7 mi) SW  of Woodcrest, CA
     1.7  2008/07/29 12:28:23 33.923N 117.798W 16.7    4 km ( 3 mi) NNW of Yorba Linda, CA
     1.7  2008/07/29 12:28:01 34.007N 117.843W 18.8    2 km ( 1 mi) WNW of Diamond Bar, CA
     1.9  2008/07/29 12:25:32 33.944N 117.782W 17.7    6 km ( 4 mi) WSW of Chino Hills, CA
     1.9  2008/07/29 12:22:40 33.937N 117.757W 14.3    5 km ( 3 mi) SW  of Chino Hills, CA
     1.8  2008/07/29 12:19:59 33.959N 117.812W 17.5    5 km ( 3 mi) S   of Diamond Bar, CA
     2.3  2008/07/29 12:18:44 33.946N 117.731W 14.2    3 km ( 2 mi) SSW of Chino Hills, CA
     2.4  2008/07/29 12:15:25 33.950N 117.805W 18.6    6 km ( 4 mi) SSE of Diamond Bar, CA
     2.1  2008/07/29 12:14:48 33.937N 117.793W 15.9    6 km ( 3 mi) N   of Yorba Linda, CA
     1.7  2008/07/29 12:13:53 33.966N 117.805W 17.0    4 km ( 3 mi) SSE of Diamond Bar, CA
     2.2  2008/07/29 12:12:28 33.953N 117.729W 14.3    3 km ( 2 mi) S   of Chino Hills, CA
     1.3  2008/07/29 12:10:31 33.920N 117.762W 13.9    4 km ( 3 mi) NE  of Yorba Linda, CA
     2.3  2008/07/29 12:03:00 33.923N 117.810W 16.4    5 km ( 3 mi) NNW of Yorba Linda, CA
     1.8  2008/07/29 12:00:23 34.155N 117.819W  0.0    4 km ( 3 mi) NE  of Glendora, CA
     1.8  2008/07/29 12:00:06 34.325N 117.463W  9.7   13 km ( 8 mi) NNW of Devore, CA
     1.7  2008/07/29 11:58:57 33.957N 117.805W 16.3    5 km ( 3 mi) SSE of Diamond Bar, CA
     1.9  2008/07/29 11:58:33 33.973N 117.739W 14.7    1 km ( 1 mi) WSW of Chino Hills, CA
     1.4  2008/07/29 11:56:36 33.947N 117.778W  9.5    6 km ( 4 mi) WSW of Chino Hills, CA
     2.2  2008/07/29 11:54:12 33.948N 117.791W 14.0    7 km ( 4 mi) SSE of Diamond Bar, CA
     2.2  2008/07/29 11:54:03 33.952N 117.770W 15.5    5 km ( 3 mi) WSW of Chino Hills, CA
     3.8  2008/07/29 11:51:52 33.959N 117.809W 15.3    5 km ( 3 mi) SSE of Diamond Bar, CA
     2.0  2008/07/29 11:51:46 33.965N 117.788W 17.6    5 km ( 3 mi) SE  of Diamond Bar, CA
     3.8  2008/07/29 11:51:29 33.941N 117.790W 16.8    6 km ( 4 mi) N   of Yorba Linda, CA
     2.4  2008/07/29 11:50:34 33.961N 117.766W 14.9    4 km ( 3 mi) WSW of Chino Hills, CA
     2.4  2008/07/29 11:49:45 33.921N 117.807W 15.3    4 km ( 3 mi) NNW of Yorba Linda, CA
     2.7  2008/07/29 11:48:27 33.946N 117.822W 16.4    6 km ( 4 mi) S   of Diamond Bar, CA
     2.8  2008/07/29 11:47:48 33.969N 117.752W 16.1    3 km ( 2 mi) WSW of Chino Hills, CA
     5.4  2008/07/29 11:42:15 33.955N 117.765W 13.6    4 km ( 3 mi) WSW of Chino Hills, CA

    V for Vendetta

    "Voilà! In view, a humble vaudevillian veteran cast vicariously as both victim and villain by the vicissitudes of Fate. This visage, no mere veneer of vanity, is a vestige of the vox populi, now vacant, vanished. However, this valorous visitation of a bygone vexation stands vivified and has vowed to vanquish these venal and virulent vermin vanguarding vice and vouchsafing the violently vicious and voracious violation of volition! [slashes a "V" into a Norsefire poster] The only verdict is vengeance; a vendetta, held as a votive, not in vain, for the value and veracity of such shall one day vindicate the vigilant and the virtuous. [giggles] Verily, this vichyssoise of verbiage veers most verbose, so let me simply add that it's my very good honor to meet you and you may call me "V". "

      

  • Evey, please... There is a face beneath this mask, but it's not me. I'm no more that face than I am the muscles beneath it, or the bones beneath them. (柔情篇)

      

    http://en.wikiquote.org/wiki/V_for_Vendetta_(film)

     

  • [V's Declaration of the Fifth of November] Good evening, London. Allow me first to apologize for this interruption. I do, like many of you, appreciate the comforts of every day routine -- the security of the familiar, the tranquility of repetition. I enjoy them as much as any bloke. But in the spirit of commemoration - whereby those important events of the past usually associated with someone's death, or the end of some awful bloody struggle - are celebrated with a nice holiday, I thought we could mark this November the 5th, a day that is sadly no longer remembered, by taking some time out of our daily lives to sit down and have a little chat. There are of course those who do not want us to speak. I suspect even now, orders are being shouted into telephones, and men with guns will soon be on their way.
    Why? Because while the truncheon may be used in lieu of conversation, words will always retain their power. Words offer the means to meaning, and for those who will listen, the enunciation of truth - and the truth is, there is something terribly wrong with this country, isn't there?
    Cruelty and injustice, intolerance and oppression. And where once you had the freedom to object, to think and speak as you saw fit, you now have censors and systems of surveillance coercing your conformity and soliciting your submission. How did this happen? Who's to blame? Well, certainly there are those who are more responsible than others, and they will be held accountable. But again, truth be told, if you're looking for the guilty, you need only look into a mirror.
    I know why you did it. I know you were afraid. Who wouldn't be? War, terror, disease. There were a myriad of problems which conspired to corrupt your reason and rob you of your common sense. Fear got the best of you, and in your panic you turned to the now High Chancellor, Adam Sutler. He promised you order, he promised you peace, and all he demanded in return was your silent, obedient consent. Last night I sought to end that silence. Last night I destroyed the Old Bailey, to remind this country of what it has forgotten. More than four hundred years ago a great citizen wished to embed the fifth of November forever in our memory. His hope was to remind the world that fairness, justice, and freedom are more than words, they are perspectives.
    So if you've seen nothing, if the crimes of this government remain unknown to you, then I would suggest you allow the fifth of November to pass unmarked. But if you see what I see, if you feel as I feel, and if you would seek as I seek, then I ask you to stand beside me one year from tonight, outside the gates of Parliament, and together we shall give them a fifth of November that shall never, ever be forgot! (铁汉篇)
  • Mansfield Park

    2007年翻拍。女主角太丑了,染一下头发就是丑女贝蒂的孪生姐妹。不过其他人统统比上一个版本好看。邪恶的人其实如果有如花美貌比较容易迷惑人,这样才能增强戏剧效果。男主角的眼睛迷死人了,好像也是诺桑觉寺的男主角。瘦瘦高高,秀色可餐阿。
    遗产继承制是成就贵族的唯一办法。因为品味仪态涵养也是要家族遗传的。他们应该庆幸他们没来美国,不然很可能在富不过一代的指导思想下,我们又多了一个Mansfield Park可供参观拍照。
    还好我大学看了很多书。

    与小说绝缘?

          要么就是我老了,要么就是我麻木了,要么就是我变态了。也可能是他们越来越做作了,有板有眼,拿腔拿调。我无法看完一部小说。我看了《悲观主义的花朵》但是在看到六十节的时候我终于忍无可忍地放弃了。其实故事讲的很好,文笔相当棒。只是一开始我就猜到了结局。大概我偏离了小资的轨道太久了,也许我从来就没靠进过。我忽然想起来sex and city里面那个七天不吃饭的行为艺术。痛苦迷茫焦躁神经质失恋恋爱又失恋。有什么了不起吗?这城市里有几个人没有在精心浇灌悲观主义的花朵,以此来取悦自己或是取悦他人?只是,这些细细碎碎的感触,或是轰轰烈烈的心碎,并不是每个人都觉得值得挂在嘴上,写进书里,并以此为生。
          为什么我忍受不了专注于自己感情细枝末节的人?小说的社会功能是怎么定义的,谁能给我解释一下?

    小城之春

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      这个词叫婉约。
          我忽然想明白一个问题,那个年代的人之所以可以慢慢来,用十年甚至更长来感伤一段感情,大概是因为他们通讯并不发达。而今,曾经用来流放的的白山黑水离京城只有一小时四十分。怎么办呢?我也想很高雅很柔情的靠在窗边刺刺绣绣并怀念时光,但是第一,我不会绣花,第二,如果我现在发email大约他下一秒就收到了。要么电光火石着向海枯石烂宣誓,要么从今往后彻彻底底永永远远就把你忘掉。没什么抓心挠肺的中间地带。何必呢?因此,那些柔软的,矜持的,克制隐忍的,天长地久的,就此失传。
      这海报就是典型的向现代人赤裸裸的谄媚。画面暧昧而香艳。你所能预计的大概就是赤裸裸的肉体纠缠,背叛,遗弃。可是,什么都没发生,一切回归正轨,相爱的人继续自我煎熬,这样才能成全良心,这样才能安抚良心,这样才能避免短暂的欢愉之后无休止的悔恨愧疚。而这悔恨愧疚如此强大以致可以摧毁海枯石烂。若干年后,甚至模糊了爱人的脸与自己当时的心。如果这剧本写在49年后,大概玉纹定是要打破封建包办婚姻的枷锁,奔向光明,奔向幸福,最后成为白区的地下党员也说不一定。
      你大概会扼腕。按现代人敢爱敢恨追求幸福的主张来看,他们完全没有必要压抑自己的幸福,成全别人。所以他们说,你有追求爱情的权利,你又得到自己想要的生活的权利,等等。他们这样一边给你洗脑一边给自己的不当行为作辩护。可我听说,身为人,没有绝对的权力,权力是和义务相对的。强调权利,你比履行义务;反之,放弃义务,你便无权要求权力。这才是公平的游戏规则,不是吗?自由总有底线,最最起码,不能以伤害他人为代价。
          另外,这个新版里面所有人说话都是捏着鼻子并放慢速的,难道是极度担心别人不知道他们在模仿四十年代电影的发音?
     

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